{"id":48452,"date":"2019-12-23T12:23:54","date_gmt":"2019-12-23T20:23:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/activeforlife.com\/?p=48452"},"modified":"2019-12-23T12:23:54","modified_gmt":"2019-12-23T20:23:54","slug":"saine-la-competition","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/activeforlife.com\/fr\/saine-la-competition\/","title":{"rendered":"Saine, la comp\u00e9tition dans le sport jeunesse?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Saine, la comp\u00e9tition dans le sport jeunesse?<\/p>\n<p>Bien des parents m\u2019ont demand\u00e9 si je jugeais la comp\u00e9tition saine pour les enfants. Le sujet suscite toujours les d\u00e9bats chez les parents, \u00e9ducateurs, entra\u00eeneurs, psychologues et sociologues. Est-elle saine ou toxique? Mine-t-elle la confiance et d\u00e9truit-elle des vies? Ou permet-elle aux enfants de comprendre que \u00ab\u00a0rien n\u2019est gagn\u00e9 d\u2019avance\u00a0\u00bb?<\/p>\n<p>J\u2019ai encadr\u00e9 des centaines d\u2019enfants de 5 \u00e0 10\u00a0ans en tant qu\u2019entra\u00eeneur de soccer ces 20\u00a0derni\u00e8res ann\u00e9es, et j\u2019ai aussi particip\u00e9 activement \u00e0 la cr\u00e9ation et \u00e0 la gestion de ligues et de comp\u00e9titions visant \u00e0 optimiser le d\u00e9veloppement des jeunes joueurs. Voici ce que j\u2019ai constat\u00e9\u00a0:<\/p>\n<p>La comp\u00e9tition n\u2019a aucune raison d\u2019\u00eatre pour la plupart des enfants de moins de sept ou huit ans. C\u2019est aussi simple que \u00e7a. Avant cet \u00e2ge, la plupart des enfants appr\u00e9cient plus un simple jeu de tague qu\u2019une comp\u00e9tition dans un sport organis\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>Je dis \u00ab\u00a0la plupart\u00a0\u00bb intentionnellement. Certains d\u2019entre eux comprennent le principe des comp\u00e9titions et souhaitent y prendre part, mais il s\u2019agit d\u2019une exception.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong>\u00c0 lire aussi : <a href=\"https:\/\/activeforlife.com\/fr\/trop-serieux-le-sport-jeunesse\/\">Trop s\u00e9rieux, le sport jeunesse?<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>Est-ce que cela signifie que les sports comp\u00e9titifs sont malsains ou inad\u00e9quats pour ces enfants? Pas forc\u00e9ment. D\u2019abord, \u00e7a d\u00e9pend de l\u2019enfant. Ensuite, je crois qu\u2019il faut poser une autre question. Si les jeunes enfants ne comprennent pas le principe de la comp\u00e9tition, pourquoi pratiquent-ils un sport?<\/p>\n<p>La r\u00e9ponse\u00a0: parce qu\u2019ils s\u2019amusent.<\/p>\n<p><em>S\u2019amuser<\/em>\u00a0est la principale raison pour laquelle\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/activeforlife.com\/fr\/les-5-principales-raisons-pour-lesquelles-les-enfants-pratiquent-un-sport\/\">les enfants pratiquent un sport<\/a>. Quand un enfant compte un but au soccer ou marque un panier au mini-basketball, il est heureux et il s\u2019amuse. Il prend part \u00e0 une activit\u00e9 comp\u00e9titive et il en retire du plaisir, m\u00eame s\u2019il ne vise pas un troph\u00e9e.<\/p>\n<p>Il se sent bien parce qu\u2019il a tent\u00e9 de mettre en pratique une habilet\u00e9 et qu\u2019il y est parvenu. J\u2019ai vu des centaines d\u2019enfants vivre semaine apr\u00e8s semaine de telles exp\u00e9riences gratifiantes. Ils en sont venus \u00e0 aimer leur sport, et c\u2019est ce qui les motive \u00e0 continuer de le pratiquer \u00e0 l\u2019adolescence et apr\u00e8s.<\/p>\n<p>La conclusion? La pratique d\u2019un sport comp\u00e9titif organis\u00e9 \u00e0 un jeune \u00e2ge peut \u00eatre parfaitement saine, pourvu qu\u2019elle soit amusante. Apr\u00e8s tout, il est prouv\u00e9 que la principale raison pour laquelle les enfants font du sport, c\u2019est pour s\u2019amuser. \u00c9vitons en tant qu\u2019adultes de g\u00e2cher leur exp\u00e9rience, par exemple en tol\u00e9rant les <a href=\"https:\/\/activeforlife.com\/how-to-deal-with-overreactive-parents\/\">parents qui perdent les p\u00e9dales<\/a>\u00a0ou les <a href=\"https:\/\/activeforlife.com\/fr\/comment-gerer-un-entraineur-tyrannique\/\">entra\u00eeneurs tyranniques<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Saine, la comp\u00e9tition dans le sport jeunesse?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":48124,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[547,538],"tags":[200,16191],"audience":[2053,2052],"topics":[2061,2059],"age_of_child":[2066],"sports":[2104,2094,2096],"region":[2111],"season":[2117],"gender":[16216],"skill":[2085],"class_list":["post-48452","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-enfants","category-slider-fr","tag-sports","tag-sports-fr-2","audience-coaches-fr","audience-parents-fr","topics-developpement-de-l-enfant","topics-sports-et-recreations","age_of_child-all-ages-fr","sports-all-fr","sports-basketball-fr","sports-soccer-fr","region-none-fr","season-none-fr","gender-none-fr","skill-none-fr"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/activeforlife.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48452","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/activeforlife.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/activeforlife.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/activeforlife.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/10"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/activeforlife.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=48452"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/activeforlife.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48452\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":48454,"href":"https:\/\/activeforlife.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48452\/revisions\/48454"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/activeforlife.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/48124"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/activeforlife.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=48452"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/activeforlife.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=48452"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/activeforlife.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=48452"},{"taxonomy":"audience","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/activeforlife.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/audience?post=48452"},{"taxonomy":"topics","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/activeforlife.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/topics?post=48452"},{"taxonomy":"age_of_child","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/activeforlife.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/age_of_child?post=48452"},{"taxonomy":"sports","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/activeforlife.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/sports?post=48452"},{"taxonomy":"region","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/activeforlife.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/region?post=48452"},{"taxonomy":"season","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/activeforlife.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/season?post=48452"},{"taxonomy":"gender","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/activeforlife.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/gender?post=48452"},{"taxonomy":"skill","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/activeforlife.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/skill?post=48452"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}